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To Be Politically Naive
April, 2005
By Donna Zajonc
"You are really naive!" This is how some describe me.
In
recent weeks I have traveled a great deal and met many new people
at book signings, speeches and seminars. While The Politics of
Hope message has been well received, at the same time I have
also heard statements like - "We like what you are saying about
transforming American politics, but it will never work," and "It's
not realistic to think that the power and greed which motivates
political leaders will ever change. Why bother?"
I
understand those thoughts and feelings of resignation. I must confess
my own inner voice has been more negative over the last couple of
months. I, too, have wondered if things will ever change.
My
response to these "gremlins" was to call my personal coach and ask
for help in understanding and clearing myself of these nasty internal
voices that were zapping my hope for a better day. (After all, I
wrote a book with the words "hope" and "politics" in the same title.
I'm not allowed to lose hope!)
I
admitted that I was wondering if I am, indeed, naive. She then read
to me the definition of naive. It is from the Latin word "nativuus"
meaning fresh, new and simple. Naive shares the same root word as
"nativity" which means "to be born." Hence we have Nativity Scene,
that barnyard setting which depicts the birth of Jesus.
"Oh
my", I said. "I guess I am naive and proud of it!" I dream
of a new birth of democracy. I believe in a simple and fresh idea
of an emergent political system where collaboration and the common
well being are the focal points of political conversation and noble
leaders are known for their honesty and integrity as the norm rather
than exception.
After I hung up from my call, I started to play in my mind. Maybe
we should start a new political party: The Naive Party! The bumper
sticker would read "Trust, Listen and Collaborate!" The political
slogan could be "Put TLC into politics!"
Kidding aside, there are millions of Americans who are broken hearted
at the current state of American politics and long for a fresh,
new and simple approach to doing the people's business.
The
reality is there are politicians who are creating a fresh
and new way of working together. One example is in my own backyard
and involves two amazing local political leaders. This story - which
appears in my book, The
Politics of Hope - may renew your hope as it did for
me.
Newly
elected King County (Seattle) Councilwomen Julia Patterson and Kathy
Lambert attended their first County Council budget meeting in December,
2000. Both women had been elected to the County Council in the previous
month and wanted to learn more about the budget issues facing the
County before they took office in January. Since both had recently
served several terms in the Washington Legislature, they were seasoned
politicians.
Julia,
an urban liberal Democrat and Kathy, a suburban, more conservative
Republican, fought like cats and dogs in the Washington House of
Representatives. During one legislative session, they requested
a department head to help them mediate their strong difference on
a bill. Trust was not an apt description of their relationship.
Neither trusted the other's motives. What happened in that December
budget meeting, however, changed their political relationship forever.
Kathy told me, "We watched the current County Council members quarrel
over small details. They took every opportunity to manipulate and
accuse each other of malicious intent. The back-stabbing, ugly things
they said to each other were embarrassing. I could not believe my
eyes and ears!"
Then
Julia reached over and put her arm around me and whispered, "I will
never treat you like that. No matter what happens, let's trust one
another."
In
that moment, Kathy and Julia made a pact that they would never intentionally
harm each other. Each promised to trust what the other had to say
and assume that her actions and statements were truthful, and in
service to the common good.
Kathy continued to describe their new relationship, "We built trust
and synergy for our programs even though we come at issues from
a different perspective. Our pact to genuinely listen and trust
one another made the difference."
"We know now that our different perspectives make our work stronger
and we welcome input instead of rejecting the other's views," Kathy
concluded.
In
August, 2003, Kathy and Julia cosponsored the first-ever "De-publican"
fundraising event, where they jointly raised money to support their
mutual reelections! Hundreds of people attended to support them
and this simple idea. Thank you Julia and Kathy for your real life
example of restoring hope for our political future!
We know that our marriages, family relationships and businesses
do not thrive unless we are able to listen to each other and work
together. How could such a simple concept have escaped the notice
of our political leaders? If this is naive then I readily accept
my naivete!
I
invite you to identify and claim your own dream for democracy, by
answering these two questions:
- What
would be your naive desire for politics if you knew anything was
possible?
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How might you keep your vision of democracy alive?
Now
allow your dream to take root and believe in its possibility. Share
it with others. Acknowledge that the dream defies the prevailing
current realities - with the growing exceptions of leaders like
Kathy and Julia. Boldly proclaim "I am Naive!" The world is in desperate
need of the "fresh, new, and simple" ideas that are at the heart
of The Politics of Hope.
I
have room for one or two new coaching clients beginning in May.
If you are considering running for public office (or know someone
that is) you may want to consider my coaching program that prepares
ordinary citizens to become extraordinary public leaders. Political
coaching will help you manage the pressures of public life and keep
alive your vision for political service.
Email
me at donna@politicsofhope.com
or call me at 206-780-9900 for a complimentary session. I look forward
to hearing from you.
Donna's
Schedule of Upcoming Events
I
am now scheduling keynote speeches. If you belong to an organization,
church, or community gathering where I might present The Politics
of Hope ideas, please contact me for speaking opportunities.
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for more information.
Donna
Zajonc
is a Political Leadership Coach, a former three-term Oregon Legislator
and was her party's nominee for Secretary of State. She has also
managed several campaigns including a highly visible governor's
campaign. Donna challenges her clients to prepare for public office
with the same rigor that all professionals seek.
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