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What
Would Christopher Reeve Do?
October, 2004
Donna Zajonc
Our
country now mourns the death of the Superman of Hope. Christopher
Reeve taught us all, in the face of life's most difficult challenges,
to hold out for the best. Once tall and buff and the picture of
handsome health, Reeve was suddenly forced by injury to live in
a withered body, hoping for science to restore his spinal cord.
Still dashing yet only able to breathe with mechanical assistance,
insistent on staving off self-pity, he became a symbol of inspiration
and courage.
I
have often told my children that in their lifetime they will witness
our paralyzed citizens throwing aside their wheelchairs and walking
again. Christopher Reeve gave me hope of seeing this and even greater
miracles in my life time.
A
political activist, he acted as a tireless spokesperson urging government
funding for scientific research to create just such medical breakthroughs.
As we hail and hearty folk watched this man in a wheelchair using
his strength to develop a national network, and to fund his own
foundation for research, it became unthinkable not to believe in
Superman.
I
wonder how Christopher Reeve would have viewed the outcome of the
upcoming election. If his candidate didn't win, would he have
found hope despite his disappointment? My bet is that he would have
moved forward with his passionate vision either way.
We
will elect a President of the United States in the next few days.
At this writing even the most astute political operatives cannot
predict the winner. Only one thing is certain: half of America isn't
going to feel like celebrating his victory.
I'm
sure that Christopher Reeve mourned the result of his injury, its
effects on his life path and on his family--but never did we hear
a discouraging word from him. Viewing his injury as a great challenge,
a test of character rather than a disaster, he taught us to see
the good in even the most seemingly dismal loss.
If
our candidate doesn't win the Presidency, how will we maintain our
political inspiration and our hope for the future? Both leaders
and their supporters have convinced us that this is the most important
election in modern American history. If your candidate loses the
election, will you regard the new president with fearful apprehension
and a defeatist depression? Or will you view this time as an opportunity,
the way Reeve transformed his injury from tragedy to triumph?
Will
half of America vilify our next president because the election dashed
their hopes? If so, we will not avoid an even nastier outcome to
this already seething cultural civil war. Such a war is more insidious
than the terrorism we are so bent on defeating. And such a division
can never be healed by demonizing our leaders, whoever they may
be.
There
was a time in American politics when public leaders considered the
concept of the "loyal opposition" as an essential and healthy contribution
to the nation's ideological conversation. Each additional point
of view added value and interest to the debate, rather than fodder
for vengeful retaliation. In the late 1970s when I was a young Oregon
legislator, our political conversation was intense and often divisive.
We also knew that, in order to gain a majority vote, we needed each
other-- working with rather than against each other always was the
only way that any of us was guaranteed success.
If
your candidate loses in November, how will you mend your political
fences? How will you make sense of the results? Might we turn disappointment
into constructive action as Christopher Reeve so valiantly showed
us how to do?
Will
those of us whose candidate loses be found wringing our hands, commiserating
about how our country is losing its greatness? Recent research has
documented what we intuitively already know: exposing ourselves
to constant negativity and fear can make us sick and ineffective.
What
we focus on is what we create. If Americans focus on fear and
demise, we will certainly have it. If we focus on what we may learn,
rather than pity ourselves that the national election disappointed
us, we are free to gather inspiration and hope. In true American
spirit, like Reeve, we'll be poised and ready for the next opportunity.
And the next.
In
these pivotal times, it is essential to do all we can to create
fruitful dialogue, to build alliances across the old political boundaries.
The Politics of Hope means taking a stand for the kind of conversation
that will cultivate a new era of political collaboration. We are
responsible for acknowledging our differences. At the same time,
we can insist on inspiring each other, rather than fanning the flames
of polarization into a national bonfire.
The
healing of our nation's soul is only possible within a conversation
that sees possibility even in the face of defeat. Through a tragic
accident, Christopher Reeve learned that his life could stand as
a model of inspiration and unlimited possibility. And he not only
learned it; he lived it.
Reeve
made the choice to keep hope alive. Our country now stands at a
choice point. Faced with tragic disappointment and a ready invitation
to despair, we all witnessed the noble choice that Christopher Reeve
made, day after day until the end of his life.
What
will you choose?
Note:
I invite you to send this message to your friends or post it on
your favorite web site. Let's keep Christopher's message of hope
and inspiration alive and advance America's post election healing
process.
Donna
Zajonc
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Donna
Zajonc is a Political Leadership Coach, a former
three-term Oregon Legislator and was her party's nominee for Secretary
of State. She has also managed several campaigns including a highly
visible governor's campaign. Donna challenges her clients to prepare
for public office with the same rigor that all professional seek.
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